What? It's not an opt in thing? I haven't paid much attention to it because I thought that it was. GRRR! ARRGH! I do have two gmail accounts, one is fannish, the other not, but there is a wee bit of overlap, like my mother-in-law has my katcorvi email account and uses it. I wish she didn't, but like you, I had one email account initially and then wised up and got a second. GRRR! ARRRGH!!